This is an excerpt from the Book of : Imâm Ibnul Qayyim al-Jawziyyah رحمه الله , a famous book called Tuhfat al-Mawdood bi Ahkaam al-Mawlood. One of the most important chapters of his book is the sixteenth chapter, which is entitled ‘Fi fusool naafi’ah fi Tarbiyat al-Atfaal tuhmad ‘awaaqibuha ‘ind al-Kabr’ (Useful advice on raising children which will have good consequences when the child grows up.)
Here is a summary of what Ibnul Qayyim رحمه الله said:
ASH HABUL HADITS 